不管在生活还是工作中，记住，遇到了事情，不能总是想要去推卸责任，其实可能你每一次在推卸责任的时候，就把本来也属于你的机遇推掉了。
In business and in life, remember that you can always pass the buck. Every time you try to pass the buck, you pass the buck and pass on an opportunity that might have been yours.
在生活中那些很会跟你寒暄，很热情的人未必是真的热心，而那些表面很冷淡，说话比较犀利的人也未必是真冷漠！
In life, those who will communicate with you, very warm people may not be really warm, and those who appear very cold, speaking more sharp people may not be really cold!
假如你很喜欢一个人，并多次邀约她出来吃饭，可是她总是三番两次的说忙，那么我想这个人肯定对你没有一点儿意思，如果对你有意的话，我想就算她再忙都会抽空来赴约的。
If you like someone and ask her out to dinner many times, but she always says she is busy, then I think this person does not have any interest in you, if interested in you, I think even if she is busy, she will find time to keep the appointment.
你发现没有？那些总是大肆宣扬读书无用论的人，其实自己本身可能就没有读过什么书。现在有人把读书的定义变得愈加的狭隘，甚至把多读书和多赚钱划上了等号！其实我们读书到底为了什么？我想是为了不让别人随便决定我们的三观。
Did you find out? Those who preach the uselessness of books may not have read much themselves. Now some people have become more narrow definition of reading, and even put more reading and more money on the equal sign! In fact, what do we read for? I think its to keep other people from dictating our views.
假如你想快速的了解一个人的话，那么你不能通过自己的第一感觉，因为感觉常常是不准确的，我建议你可以注意一下，他对身边的人怎么样？你们出去吃饭他对服务员态度怎么样？这样基本就能了解他的人品是什么样子的了。
If you want to get to know someone quickly, you can get to know him or her through your first feelings, because feelings are often inaccurate. I suggest you pay attention to how he or she treats the people around him or her. How does he treat the waiters when you go out to dinner? So you know basically what his personality is like.
关于男女有一个很奇怪的现象，那就是，如果一个女孩子让所有男生都觉得她好的话，那么她大概率可能不太好，但是一个女孩子如果让所有女孩子都觉得她好的话，那么她可能就是真的好！
There is a strange phenomenon about men and women, that is, if a girl let all the boys think she is good, then she is probably not good, but if a girl let all the girls think she is good, then she may be really good!
假如你的生活中有人跟你自嘲时，那你听听就好了，千万不要去附和他，有一点你必须明白，别人自嘲是谦虚，而你如果跟着附和的话，那么别人就会以为你真的在嘲笑他。
If someone in your life makes fun of you, then you just listen to them, do not go along with him, one thing you must understand, others laugh at themselves is modest, and if you go along with it, then people will think you are really laughing at him.
结语：其实在生活中，有些人越是喜欢炫耀什么东西，其实他可能就越缺少这样东西，可是呢，你越觉得别人在炫耀什么东西，可能你也越缺少什么东西。
Conclusion: In fact, in life, the more some people like to show off something, in fact, he may be less of this thing, but, the more you feel that others are showing off something, you may also lack of something.
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